You may call me AC or one of many other nicknames, if you know them. I first joined Fetlife and the kink community in 2012 with skeptical mind. The first two people I met at a play party were Mistress Cherish and DevoutedtoCherish. I will admit I was almost scared out of the community. However, they invited me to their house and they began to teach and mentor me. Their teachings showed me it was okay to be male bottom and submissive. After a year or so, they invited me to join their Leather Family House of Khaos and became my mom and dad (they are still to this day even though the family is no longer fully together due to life). As a family we volunteered multiple years at Leather History Conference and hosted a Kinky Camping at their house. In 2017 I got to attend my first CAPEX and months later I met my Ma’am, Mistress Shih-yu-kuo. We still attend and volunteer with CAPEX, as time permits. We also joined and volunteered with Dominae of the Carolinas, where I am currently the Submissive Liaison. We also attend and volunteer at SELF and LLC. In 2019 my Ma’am and I joined House of Reaper. Also, I also attend the Tradesmen Bar Night and help them when I can. Lastly, in the Summer and Fall 2023 I began my pledge process for CLO, and I was accepted in 2024.
I have taught classes on “Earned Leather” and “What is Flagging”. I also research and attend classes on being brat, switch, primal, electrical, knives, and history of BDSM, kink, and Leather. You will see me volunteering and helping at the events I attend. Also, see me sitting back and listening to all the stories, I wish I would have done more this when I first came into the lifestyle. Lastly, I help a group called CAGE.